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Intimacy, relating & sexuality

Enlightenment in the Bedroom is an evening of honest, approachable and educational talks about sex and intimacy. This is your invitation into an inclusive, cosy and welcoming environment to learn from experts in the field of sexuality. 

We share a drink, some nibbles and it’s a chance to connect with other like-minded souls. Each event has a selection of professional presenters that speak from the heart and share information and tangible practises that you can actually utilise in your life and intimate experiences. 

This isn’t a workshop but more like a series of mini TedTalks and performance with a chance to mingle during intermission.

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Our speakers

Get to know the intimacy experts who will be sharing their knowledge and life experience at the event.

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  • Queer-affirming relational therapist

    Dabaco is host of Enlightenment In The Bedroom Sydney. He has trained in Gestalt therapy and specialises in working with clients around identity, sexuality and relating. Dabaco’s particularly curious about supporting the LGBTQ+ community and those navigating alternate relating styles such as open relating and polyamory.

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  • Somatic Sexologist & Sex Counsellor

    Alice helps individuals and couples achieve a happier, healthier and more fulfilled sex life  - whatever that means for them.


    Alice works with clients at her practice in Sydney and globally via tele-health, and runs regular sexuality workshops, talks and events. In 2024 she launched Pillow Play; a collection of online sex and intimacy games and skills for couples.  Her workshops, counselling, events and online courses have brought sexual happiness to thousands of people globally. 

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  • Rave Reverend

    Paisley is the visionary behind Rave Temple, an alternative party series that has become a cornerstone of queer, sex-positive culture across Australia. Their most groundbreaking event, Queer Sauna Sounds, is the first of its kind in Australia, breaking down barriers that once limited bathhouse spaces to gay men. Rave Temple opens its doors to all sexy queers, crafting a liberating, enchanting space.

    With DJ sets pumping slutty anthems and performances by drag artists, strippers, sex workers, clowns, and burlesque dancers, it places gender-diverse and trans folks at the forefront of sauna culture.

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  • The Pussy Queen

    Chloe is a multifaceted professional in the realms of somatic sexology, self-love coaching, and ceremonial facilitation. With a background ranging from professional fairy to dedicated teacher, Chloe's journey of self-discovery has led her to embrace and empower others to embody their authentic selves, including their sexuality.

    Inspired by Neo-Tantra and Taoism, Chloe advocates for the integration of sexuality into the full spectrum of life. Her Celtic heritage infuses her work with a connection to subtle energetic realms, embracing the wild and mysterious.

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Topics can range through everything from arousal mapping your body to learning crucial communication skills for maximum safety and pleasure… From de-armouring an orifice to unlocking the power of kink… How to step into deeper connection and vulnerability to BDSM dynamics… Deconstructing sexual scripts to queering up the play spaces.

Are you ready to open your mind and expand your intimacy?

So what are we going to be talking about?

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A comfortable setting

Just like when making love, set and setting is so important. Enlightenment in the Bedroom will be held in the cosy Low302 bar in Surry Hills. Think low mood lighting, lush red. velvet curtains and there are lots of comfortable booths to slide into so you can feel right at home.

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Complimentary drink on arrival & prizes

All guests will receive a house drink on entry to help you settle in. We also have prizes to give out during the night which often include sex toys, lube as well as intimate oil by Yoni Elixier plus much more.

Join our upcoming event

6:30pm Wednesday 23rd October at Low302 in Surry Hills

When booking your ticket please keep the box ticked for receiving news and updates so we can let you know about future Enlightenment In The Bedroom events.

Got a question? Get in touch

We’d love to hear from you. Maybe it’s a question about subject matter, catering, accessibility, or perhaps you’re interested in speaking at an upcoming event? Fill out the form and we’ll get back to you soon.